What questions can you not ask references?
John Hall
Updated on February 08, 2026
Here are some of the questions you should avoid when checking references in the US:
- “Does The Applicant Have Any Children?” It is illegal for hiring managers to ask about relationship status before hiring.
- “What Is The Applicant’s Religious Affiliation?”
- “How Old Is The Applicant?”
- What Should You Ask?
What questions are asked during reference checks?
Some of the questions asked when checking references are factual, centering around job title, salary, employment dates, etc. Reference checks are also an opportunity for an employer to get a sense of a candidate’s performance on the job and personal qualities.
What are reference questions?
Best Reference Check Questions to Vet References How long have you worked in your current role at your company? How long did you work with the candidate and what positions did you hold while your worked with the candidate? Is there any reason that I should be speaking to another reference?
Is it illegal to lie on a reference?
Any candidate relying on a false reference is dishonest and potentially fraudulent, and not a candidate that any potential employer will want to hire. Providing a false reference is also almost always gross misconduct because of the dishonesty element.
Do employers call all three references?
Most employers will call your references only if you are the final candidate or one of the final two. Occasionally the final three or four. Every now and then an employer will check all the people they interview, although to me that’s inconsiderate of the reference.
How long does a reference check take?
As you will show your desperrison for getting job. Make sure that the reference check is completed by your prospective employer by checking with the contacts you have given. Usually it takes 2–3 days once the reference check is completed, if the recruiter is busy with other immediate hiring it may take a bit longer.
What are the types of reference questions?
Katz, in his book, Introduction to Reference Work, categorized reference queries into four categories: directional, ready reference, specific-search questions and in-depth research. This article discusses how in a typical semester, these types of questions are encountered by librarians in a noticeable pattern.
How do you check phone references?
HOW TO CONDUCT REFERENCE CHECKS
- Identify yourself, your title, organization name and tell them you are calling about a reference for a candidate you are considering.
- Ask if now is a good time to talk or whether they would rather schedule a call at a later time.
What should I expect during a reference check?
Reference checks are also an opportunity for an employer to get a sense of a candidate’s performance on the job and personal qualities. If you’re nervous about what will happen during a reference check, it might help to know what to expect. For example, there are standard questions that are used to check out prospective employees.
Do you have to ask a candidate for a reference?
Yes, when you ask a candidate to provide references, you should obtain their permission to contact their references. Consent can also be granted via language on the job application (e.g., a statement that all information provided by the candidate will be verified), the Declaration for Federal Employment form (OF-306) or a similar agency-
Where do I get a reference for a job?
Many employers refer all requests for references to the Human Resources department, which often doesn’t have additional details accessible.
What should I look for in a reference list?
Ideally, you wrangle all three for your reference list. “That would give an employer a good picture of how you are as a direct report, as a co-worker, and as a manager,” Wichansky says. If you’re going to use a previous boss as a reference, though, first check to see whether the person is allowed to talk about your job performance.