How do name changes work when you get married?
Sarah Garza
Updated on March 30, 2026
If you decide to change your last name when you get married, you don’t need a court order. Just write your new last name on your marriage license and show your marriage certificate (not license) to places such as the DMV, your bank, and Social Security Administration as proof of your new last name.
Should you change your name before or after marriage?
Before the big day: You can’t technically change your name until after the event because you need your marriage license, but there are a few steps you can take to get a head start on your name change. You can’t change anything else until you’ve received your marriage license in the mail post-event.
Is it illegal to use your maiden name when married?
If you marry in Australia you can take the surname of your husband or wife without formally changing your name. You can usually change identity documents such as your driver’s licence and passport to your married surname by providing a copy of your standard marriage certificate.
Can you change your last name for no reason?
1. You don’t need a good reason, just a legal one. You can change your name for any purpose short of breaking the law— and you can do it without a lawyer.
Can someone have 2 last names?
The use of double surnames is legal but not customary. Children traditionally take on their father’s surname (or, more recently, optionally their mother’s). Double names can be combined by taking one part of each. Either spouse or both can take a double name.
Do husbands ever take their wife’s name?
While a man taking his wife’s name is uncommon, it’s not unheard of. That’s because, depending on the state, your husband’s name change may not be considered part of the marriage process, but instead is seen as a legal name change where a marriage license isn’t enough.
What needs to be changed after marriage?
What do I need to update after getting married?
- Your Social Security card. If you’ve changed your name, this should be your first stop.
- Your driver’s license.
- Your credit union/bank account information.
- Your payroll information.
- Your life insurance and retirement accounts.
- Your insurance policies.
- Your creditors.
Can I just start using my maiden name again?
You can go back to using your maiden name freely until you’ve filled out all the legal paperwork. Choosing to change your last name after a divorce is ultimately a personal preference. Some people want to keep it because they have kids or they wait until they remarry.
Do you have to change your name before or after marriage?
Longer names tend to work better as they give more options. You will both need to change your name by deed poll, similar to if you were double barrelling them. You can either change the bridegroom’s name before marriage using a deed poll, or change both husband’s and wife’s names after marriage.
When did the law allow a spouse to change their name?
As a result of the lawsuit, the Name Equality Act of 2007 was passed to allow either spouse to change their name, using their marriage license as the means of the change; the law took effect in 2009. [16] [41]
Can a man change his maiden name to his wife’s?
Sometimes, men make their wife’s maiden name their own middle name. For example, John Smith who marries Jane Jones may change name to John Jones Smith. You can create a new surname for both of you by combining elements of your old surnames.
When is the best time to change your maiden name?
If possible, it is better for the husband to change his name before the marriage is announced, and have all documentation changed so as to make the marriage process less complicated. An alternative to double barrelling a name is keeping a maiden name as a middle name. This does require use of a deed poll document.